
"TED" (Technology Entertainment Design) Talks
The hidden influence of social networks
A cliché is a word or phrase that has become overly familiar or commonplace. Derived from a French printing method in the late 18th century, these metaphors have gained a negative connotation, relating to a trite or overused expression or idea. However, they can aptly be used to easily explain something by a recognizable word or phrase. Clichés are just that, clichés —because they are tried and true.
Nicholas Christakis’ excellent depiction, of clusters of people and networking, is a new-age, in-depth spin on the age-old clichés (to name a few): There’s Strength in Numbers; No Man Is an Island; and the Beatles 1967 hit song, I’ll Get By With a Little Help from My Friends .
In life, there is nothing better—more cathartic, comforting—than a group of friends with whom to share the good times and the bad, when the going gets rough. There are many patches in my life that I would not have survived (quite so well) if not for my large network of friends. Close relationships (the more the better) define the sum total of who we are. “If you want to know about a person, look at his friend(s).” Social connections are far better than all the analysts in the world. It is not abstract, it is not impersonal. Yes, I totally agree with Mr. Christakis, “It is a very good thing!” It is listening, sharing, caring….the road is long…”He Ain’t Heavy, He’s My Brother”
XO Barbara’s World
ttp://www.ted.com/talks/nicholas_christakis_the_hidden_influence_of_social_networks.html
(download)My Granddaughter Megan & The Jonas Brothers....

MEGAN MET THE JONAS BROTHERS, and said it was the best night of her life!!!
John & Aileen finally made it happen (with the help of some great friends). They surprised Megan--who had only been told that some "special guys" wanted to meet her. The NJ State Police escorted them into the PNC Arts Center (which Megan thought was way cool)! The Jonas Brothers came down from behind the stage to meet Megan....The absolute thrill of a lifetime for a thirteen year old, very special young lady! God Bless....
xo Barley
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For ALL my friends.......I Hope You Dance!
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“I’d like to think that time and age are like cousins—they’re relative. Who said you have to go by actual miles? If you didn’t know how old you were, how old would you be?”
Happy Monday!
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Make Your Site Native – PadPressed
http://www.mutterz.com/onine-marketing/marketing-tools/padpressed/ Traffic is the biggest issue for any webmaster – how to get it, how to keep it, how to increase it, and any other relevant ‘how to’ you can think of. As more and more ways of digesting information on the internet are presented to people, keeping up with them becomes more and more of an issue. It is essential that you do – nothing puts off a user faster than not being able to access their favourite site on their newest gizmo. You are also losing a potential market. The web is going mobile and consequently we have to take our sites mobile too, turning your blog into an iPad app can be very expensive, the inquiries I made gave me cause to wince! Then I came across PadPressed, a plugin for WordPress that effectively turns your blog into a native app, without all the hoo hah of development and going through the App Store approval process. When your site is accessed from the iPad, it is presented in a very nice format – posts are two columns in the vertical, three in the horizontal, and with all the things you would expect from an app. The home page has two side bars into which you can drop widgets as you normally would. Built in social sharing, swipe featured slider, custom home icon, featured category slider, swipe to advance, touch navigation and so on are all there, though I would suggest you upload your own icons – I still have that small job to do. When your reader bookmarks the site, a nice little icon drops onto the screen for direct access and fits in perfectly with the usual app icon, even down to the highlight. Uploading your own logo is simple enough too. In fact, it gave me a little glow of pride when I saw my logo sitting there on my iPad screen – simple things please me immensely! There are a number of ‘Themes’ that you can choose from and I understand that there are plans in the pipeline for more and also for further development. There were a few issues, when it first hit the streets last week, but credit to the support team, they got it sorted quickly. The support forum is well monitored, so problems get picked up and sorted. Installation was simple and it only took a few minutes to sort out. I still have to do some fine tuning, in terms of what I want in the sidebars and icons for the main categories, but you could be good to go on the iPad in less than ten minutes. You do need to think a little bit about post formatting and images, but nothing too onerous, just common sense, really. It is a paid plugin – $49.99 – but compared to the cost of developing an app--that is peanuts. I’m delighted with it, and will be rolling it out on a number of my and my clients sites over the next few weeks. Combined with WPTouch for the iPhone etc – free or relatively inexpensive for the pro version – you can have your site mobile in minutes which has got to be good. You can get further details here > PadPressed In the meantime – a short video demo for your delight PS – Yes, it is an affiliate link… that doesn’t mean you pay any extra.
Great - poignant Story
This is a wonderful story. It was sent to me by my son, Jason Baptiste. The message is from Alexis Ohanian who is 25, Jason's age; and, like my son, talks and writes quite quickly (mild). However, they are prime examples of how the newly emerged, very ambitious child of the 21st Century succeeds in this extremely new and fast paced world! They are more than resilient, more than "dreamers," much much more than "Geeks." This, my friends, is the very real world of fresh, new enterpreneurs.
I had just finished reading a text book on Neanderthal man (trying to get a head start on the full load I am taking for the Fall semester), and I saw that Jason had sent me a link to please read--a very touching story. I did read and thought you would appreciate.
PS I also profusely thanked my son for sharing....because .....after reading very abstract ancient history, I really did need to cry!
xo
from: Barbara's World
Alexis Ohanian:
How to make a splash in social media
Graduated from UVA in 2005 and put my history major to work co-founding reddit.com. Sold it to Condé Nast in 2006 and continued doodle the reddit alien for another three years until retiring for a Kiva Fellowship in Armenia. Founded Breadpig, Inc., an uncorporation that's responsible for bringing geeky things into the world like LOLmagnetz and xkcd: volume 0 -- and donating all the profits ($93,000 given away so far!). Thanks to a whale, I gave a TED talk in 2009. [Joy!] My dad and I are also professional downtrodden Skins fans.
Oh, and I'm the guy responsible for the reddit alien. It comes in different flavors. If you've ever told someone about reddit, breadpig, or any of my projects, I owe you a beer. (Thanks!)
Few people outside of friends & family knew about the following at the time it was going on; bringing it up now, long after I've left reddit, feels less self-serving and will hopefully be instructive. This came up briefly in a talk I gave at MIT, but this feels a lot more comfortable to write than to speak about.
Steve and I spent every waking hour (and some dreaming, no doubt) after graduation with reddit somewhere on our minds. The time we spent working on it together only reinforced the marriage metaphor everyone uses about cofounders.
My life -- and thus Steve's -- was dramatically changed during those startup months for reasons beyond my control. I've lived a ridiculously fortunate life, so I knew it was only a matter of time before something was going to knock things a bit off course; I just didn't think it'd happen like this.
Just a month after we started working on reddit, Steve and I were wrapping up a game of WoW around 4am. I'd only been asleep for an hour when my cellphone rang.
My girlfriend's mother was on the phone. Her daughter had been studying abroad in Germany, was due home in just a couple weeks, and was now in the hospital. She'd fallen out of her apartment window. Five stories.
I spent a good part of our YC summer in Germany beside her hospital bed. Her mother remained until December when she finally came home after months of coma, surgeries, recovery, and rehab.
(It's worth noting that German taxpayers kindly paid for every day of this world-class medical treatment. Danke.)
I can't stress what a tremendous recovery she's made. I had the honor of attending her graduation from the University of Virginia. Although we're no longer together, she remains someone who consistently inspires me.
Keep calm, carry on.
Little did I know, a couple months after my girlfriend's fall, I was due for another call.
My mom called me one Monday morning in September. She was distraught. Max, our family dog, had just died. Poor boy had been fighting Cushing's Syndrome for quite some time; my mom found him that morning in great distress and rushed him to our vet. There weren't very many options.
The most humane thing to do was euthanasia. I never got a chance to say goodbye to the good boy, but I take solace knowing he was with my mother, who doted on him like a son once I was out of the house.
It was hard on all of us, but it was hardest on my mom.
They were supposed to leave that evening for a trip to Norway. They'd planned it for months.
So I was surprised to get a call from my dad that evening (when am I going to learn to stop taking out-of-the-blue calls?).
He and mom were in the hospital. In hindsight, her anguish is possibly what triggered the seizure she had that afternoon, which led to the MRI that canceled their vacation.
My mother was diagnosed with a class IV Glioblastoma multiforme. Such an ugly name. I remember the first time I googled it, hoping I could search my way to a cure. But it basically meant terminal brain cancer. She was 51 when she was diagnosed.
I flew down to Maryland first thing the next morning. And you know the first thing she told me?
"I'm sorry. Sorry because I know how much you've already been through."
Keep calm, carry on.
During the next few years I spent a lot of time travelling between Boston (where reddit was based) and Maryland (where my parents lived). Every time I left her side, I was energized by her courage and unflagging spirit. She gave me all the inspiration I needed to wake up every morning and kick some ass, because that's what you have to believe as a startup founder.
If you've worked with the spineless, you know how frustrating it can be to deal with their poisonous helplessness -- something that's only heightened in a startup where the most important thing you can do is not give up. And you'd better fucking believe that when you come home to a mother battling brain cancer and a father spending every waking hour taking care of her and running his own business, you don't complain, you don't cower, and you most certainly don't quit.
She fought for far longer than any doctor expected and died on March 15, 2008. But I got to prove that her 25 years of wholeheartedly supporting me weren't in vain -- you can bet that had a lot to do with my feelings about selling reddit.
There were some dark months there, like living in the middle of an interminable fog. Upon reflection, I was probably suffering from depression for most of that startup. If you happened to meet me during that time, you probably wouldn't have known it.
Click to view largeBut I got through it thanks to having a startup (and working with people like Steve & Chris):
- Freedom to travel whenever and wherever (I must've explained my 3G modem to every single nurse at Hopkins & NIH).
- It was something I could wholly invest myself in to keep my mind off everything else knowing that everything I was putting into it wasn't benefiting my boss.
- Having partners like Steve Huffman and Chris Slowe who never questioned what I was doing with my time, were absolutely supportive, and could always be counted on for a game of Soul Caliber or round of beer when I needed it. I hope I was at least half of all those things in return.
(I also got a lot of therapy from doodling all those alien logos for random holidays and events -- it was something I knew she'd check every day. But that's certainly not for everyone. I started a photoblog for her to check regularly, too: OMGbabies. Cute baby animal photos are endorphin-tastic!)
Having been through all this, I can confidently say that starting a startup was the best thing that could've happened to me. Enduring all of that in an office job or law school would've been overwhelming.
Plenty of you reading this have no doubt been through the same or worse (and I wouldn't wish it on any of you who haven't) but know that under the right circumstances, having a startup could be extremely beneficial for your mental health.
As if you needed one more reason why you ought to start a startup.

Thank you, mom. I love you.





